ASK THE STUPID QUESTION

In last week’s blog post, I assured you that no one is thinking about you. Ouch! Wait! Don’t go! What I meant is that no one really is obsessing about you, what you said or what you wore because they’re too busy obsessing about they said and what they wore…So relax for a second. And now, I’d like to tell…

 

NEVER EXAGGERATE YOUR OWN IMPORTANCE

Don’t worry too much about what everyone is thinking about you. Honestly? They’re NOT thinking about you. This should come as a relief – and, I know, kind of a bummer. The only thing worse than people talking about us is people NOT talking about us, right? But what I’ve learned after decades of leaving parties and going home and…

 

“WHAT IF I’M WRONG ABOUT THAT?”

Here’s a secret: I know exactly what other people are thinking (it’s a gift!!!) except when I’m wrong or mostly wrong. That happens a lot. To heal myself, I’ve started using a revolutionary approach. I ask. I say something like this: “Hey, I can’t read your mind. I’d love to know what you’re thinking, if you’re willing to tell me.”…